Making it final

[whaywardj]

Ooooo. The plot thickens! Bi-sexual? What do YOU mean by that?

Not one of those women who maintain both a heterosexual relationship (for public consumption and general companionship), and a (less public) lesbian relationship (for the real emotional connecting and romancing), are you?

I've known a few women like that. Quite interesting personalities. Have also had lesbian lovers. Oh, the things we'd talk about!

[bluesummer]

Independent - I fianlly read your thread, and now I see that we really do have a lot in common in our situations! It seems you are doing well though, and handling everything the way you should. The final push is always the most painful. Hope evrything works out the best for you.

[independent]

Thank you, Bluesummer. The final push IS the hardest, you are right... but it's also a relief, I have to admit.

Hayward... No, I'm not. And I enjoy the romancing and emotional connection I feel with men (when its there). And with my limited experience, I dont find women to be superior by any means.

Let's just say I'm flexible. But I wouldnt bring a lady home to meet my family

[whaywardj]

Okay. Any hard-core lesbians on the board? Does that count as bi-sexual? Or is it just experimentation? Where the hell is the bi-guy when you need him...

[independent]

I dont know if it counts or not. I'm not really interested in pursuing it at this point in my life... I just notice my attraction, and count it for what it is. It's not something I long for or pine over - and I feel perfectly content in a situation with a good man.

[Rosebud]

There can be attraction to the same sex but that doesn't mean they want that committed type relationship with them. I have no quams about saying a female is attractive and or being attracted to their personality. There is a differnece between being "bi-sexual" and wanting to experiment. I don't think Independent is either, but that's just IMO.

[independent]

And you're probably right, RB

[Rosebud]

I don't know if I'm right or not, But I think woman look at other woman and think about those things because they already know how woman think and most of the time, what they want. And I have thought about that before, btu as difficult as men can be I love them. I'm very affection with my girl friends but that's how we are it's not becasue we like each other that way it's becasue we understand what they need so we give them hugs or kiss their cheeks or whatever.. But then again, that's just my opinion.

And I think I got somewhat off the subject..lol

[Junsui]

I don't know what y'all are talking about, but I skimmed through your post and saw something about kissing women? lol

[Rosebud]

Kissing woman??? DId I miss that part? I said I kiss my girlfriends on the cheek sometimes..

[Junsui]

Ahh ok, that's it!

[Rosebud]

lol, no Junsui, I'm not secretly gay!!!! haha

[Junsui]

haha I wasn't thinking that.

[Rosebud]

lol, ok good.. Just had to check!!

[independent]

Nope, that was me - remember LOL