questions for ladies(and a question for the boys)

[lilwing89]

hello ladies.

i have a few questions to ask you:

do you find it offensive if your lover says 'blowjob' when referring to you performing oral on him?

do you find 'pussy' or any other slang or derrogative terms for vagina offensive when your lover refers to yours? if so do you prefer him to just call it your vagina?

do you find names for penis such as 'dick', '****', or anything else immature? if so do you prefer to use the word penis?

guys:

do you feel funny when using the word penis or vagina or the proper term for any sexual act?

[Rosebud]

hello ladies.

i have a few questions to ask you:

do you find it offensive if your lover says 'blowjob' when referring to you performing oral on him? NOPE

do you find 'pussy' or any other slang or derrogative terms for vagina offensive when your lover refers to yours? if so do you prefer him to just call it your vagina? NOPE EXCEPT FOR THE C WORD...MAKES ME CRINGE!

do you find names for penis such as 'dick', '****', or anything else immature? if so do you prefer to use the word penis? NOPE NOT AT ALL

guys:

do you feel funny when using the word penis or vagina or the proper term for any sexual act?

None of those really bother me except for the one really really bad word that I hate.

[lilwing89]

which is?...

[Rosebud]

*cringes* The C word!!

[mini696]

Words only have the power YOU give them.

[Rosebud]

Well in any case I still hate that word, and always have. I think it's very degrading.

[Late_vamp]

Well in any case I still hate that word, and always have. I think it's very degrading.

could it be CUN T ? like "ya bloody damn Cun t !!! "

or was it cucumber or caca ?

[whaywardj]

Ever see "The Vagina Chronicles," Rosebud?

[updraft]

Well in any case I still hate that word, and always have. I think it's very degrading.

Its just a word rosebud...

[whaywardj]

Oh? You mean like "nigger", "wetback", "kike", "wop" and "faggot," to mention only a few of the most popularly offensive?

[shh!]

I loathe that word, too Rosebud, along with all those that hayward mentioned.

[mini696]

Even though I said what I did above, I believe c*** is a very offensive word. Its a new (modern) word used only in bad situations, usually degrading women.

[Only-virgins]

Wow and all this time I have been using biatch when Cun t is so hated by females. I am switching now. Thank you for the info people.

[whaywardj]

Go for it, OV. And not so modern, Mini:

A reader has asked about the word cunt, wondering if it had something to do with "cunning" as in "a cunning woman was a negative thing". It has nothing to do with cunning (which is related to the verbs ken and can) and everything to do with what it means today: "female genitalia". It first shows up in a list of London street names of about 1230. That street name was, interestingly, Gropecuntelane, one of a warren of streets and alleyways all given over to the lowest forms of prostitution and bawdry. It lay between Aldermanbury and Coleman Street (where the Swiss Bank stands today) and it belonged to one "William de Edmonton". Curiously, medieval Paris had a street name with an identical meaning - Rue Grattecon. Oxford and York apparently also had similar versions of that street name.

Cunt is believed to derive from a Germanic root *kunton "female genitalia", which also gave rise to Old Norse kunta (ancestor of Norwegian and Swedish dialectical kunta and Danish dialectical kunte), Old Frisian, Middle Low German and Middle Dutch kunte, and the English doublet quaint. And, by the way, the word wasn't always considered derogatory, even though it is today. Be careful about assuming that a word's modern connotations must have governed its formation. By the way, no connection has been made between the Germanic words and Latin cunnus. The proto-Germanic root of cunt is ku- "hollow place", while the Indo-European root of Latin cunnus is (s)keu- "to cover, to conceal", the etymological meaning of cunnus being "sheath".

Source: [url]http://www.takeourword.com/pt.html[/url]

[Junsui]

I agree Rosebud, I hate that word too. Yes, it is only a word, but it brings back bad memories for me so I hate it.