ok what i'm about to say is quite tragic, and i'm expecting some flak for it.
basically i'm still not over my ex, who dumped me over 6 months ago.. and the saddest part is we were together for just 4 months.
its kinda gone through stages, and at some points i was sure i was over it, but now i feel like my feelings are the same as they were about 5 months ago.
i'm fairly sure the mistake i have made is not sticking with no contact. we still see each other every 2 - 3 weeks (recently anyway). i know the answer is very likely to be "just get on with your ****ing life and stop contacting her", but the thing is i did do no contact for about 2 months of this 6 month period, and nothing seemed to improve. this is turning into a ridiculous joke cos she should mean nothing to me after this long. i feel like i'm just not getting anywhere with this.
she broke up with her new bf recently and has been coming to me for comfort, so i don't know how i can sort of stop contacting her without upsetting her more. i know i shouldn't care about her feelings really but i can't help myself, i care far too much about other people.
i'm expecting some harsh comments here so feel free. i know this is pathetic