What's your dumping experience is like?

[Justinfirelake]

..........

[youriw]

:?:

dumpee or dumper?

[Justinfirelake]

Both

[Zekk_T_Strife]

Well, I've dumped a couple girls and personally I find that harder than getting dumped. When I get dumped its just like, "Oh ok, I can understand why she wouldn't want to be with me anymore." But when I dump someone else, its like, "I really don't want them to feel bad and if they do I know I'll beat myself up over it." Thats what its been like for me anyway.

[Justinfirelake]

Yeah i got the same feeling too bro.

[Illusional]

haha..wait till you have the actual converstation and you're just trying to free flow it. damn all the thoughts running through your mind and having them wait for an answer. that is torqure. raverboy

[Justinfirelake]

Which line sound better I'm dumping you or I'm Breaking up with you? Because dumping sound like a strong word.

[Illusional]

reguardless of how you say it, it is a hard emotion to deal with. if you're not ready to end something that you value so very much, being dumped, heart broken, lonely,..it all ends up being the same. raverboy

[Justinfirelake]

How do you know when your doing the right thing?

[Illusional]

there are always two sides to every coin and therefore you can never really know if you're doing the right thing. it will all depend on how you feel because some people will view your thoughts as right will others will oppose you. raverboy

[Justinfirelake]

hummm interesting.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

As far as my experience has gone, I've learned one thing for sure when it comes to girls......I'm always wrong.

[Justinfirelake]

Has any one of you try getting back together?

[Illusional]

the second time around always feels different. you're expecting or remembering life in the past and you're usually not ready for a change but it happens. when you realize that it's not the same, usually a break up in the outcome once more. raverboy

[Justinfirelake]

oh