No straight answer

[whaywardj]

I agree with the previous post.

[cheazypeaz]

well here we go...

i went to a party tonight, and she was there. she text me saying she wanted to say hi. So when i got in i had a quick look about and saw her kissing another guy, she saw me and stuck her tongue out (how cheeky). so i was thinking to myself that i knew that would happen, and just told the other guy i needed to speak to her for 5 minuites. he said this was okay, we walked off to somewhere a bit more quiet and i started talking to her. i told her exactly how i felt and everything.

I got little response from her, except she tried to kiss me, i backed off from this as i knew it was heading for trouble. we talked a bit and i kinda gave in (call me stupid) and we kissed. it meant nothing to me. for once i felt that no matter what she does it means nothing, i feel like i had my 'place'

anyway, she said she needed to find her friend, so i walked with her to her friend where this guy was again, when they both kissed non stop for about 10 minuites infront of me. although i was a bit upset she could do that infront of me, i let it go, she is single after all. i then told her i needed to tell her one thing, and to come with me for 2 minuites.

we talked, i asked her if she would tell me what the response was to that phonecall she was supposed to make, and she said she wanted to be friends. i told her i couldn't be friends with her that just makes it harder. she kinda looked at me in dispair, as in she wanted to say 'why the hell not' ..

Anyway, she said she was going back to her friends, i said ok, so you dont want to speak to me? .. she shaked her head and walked off.. i tagged on her arm and said, fine, if thats how its going to be, i'll see you never. and gave her a small push away, just to show how i meant it (nothing nasty or painful) ...

After that i saw her once more in the club when i was finding my mate, i just basicly gave her the finger, hope she gets the message, i'm going to let her know i'm deleting her number, never replying to her messages again and dont intend on speaking to her ever again, she made it clear, i gave it a shot...

thats the end of that one.

case closed.

[gHEXjt]

Even though it sucks, you're doing the right thing.

[cheazypeaz]

thanks, thats what i needed to hear.

i really did feel that i was 'stuck' like glue when i was next to her there. i was straight to the point, i got my point accross, she got hers accross, job done.

oh and i told her via sms that i have deleted her number and got rid of everything i have to remember her by .. i'm going outside now to set fire to the teddy bear she bought me.. call me nasty but hell i'm sure i'll feel better.

[cheazypeaz]

grin from ear to ear... at first it wouldn't burn so i got some fuel out my motorbike petrol tank and drenched it first.. ohh fire!!!

[pepsi55]

Nice one forget her like you have find someone else and when she wants you back kiss your new bird infront of her .

[artyemi]

if you really wanted to let her go, you don't have to tell her any of that. to me, it just seems you want her to stop you or beg you or something..

dude, move on, let go, and just drop it.

[cheazypeaz]

i like people to know the position, and no matter what.. its OVER.

[whaywardj]

Well, not exactly, Cheazy. It's not over until everybody stops having any feelings about it at all...like being angry.

[cheazypeaz]

why be angry, that solves nothing? besides why would i be angry when i know all her passwords... needless to say she dosent know them now.. *****...will....pay.

[artyemi]

you are angry.

[Tone]

Grow up. Let it go. Move on.

[cheazypeaz]

i agree artyemi....

to deliberatly hurt my feelings she deserves to pay for it imo.

i have been on her msn all day

[Junsui]

You seem like a great person to date!

[artyemi]

i agree artyemi....

to deliberatly hurt my feelings she deserves to pay for it imo.

i have been on her msn all day

this reminds of that movie, closer.. you know, he went online and pretended to be the woman who rejected him and chatted with another guy.. in the end, he lost that girl to that guy..

anyway, back to the matter at hand.. you should disconnect yourself from what she is or isn't doing. if she's delibrately hurting you, then, you should stay away from her, and just move on. why bother?