Distancing, a big, big turn off!
Hello Friends
On this journey called "Dating" I appear to be finding out more and more about myself. Both the positives and the negatives. My latest discovery appears to do a little with the issue of distancing. The distancing really frustrates me (E.g. Postponing of dates for no particular reason by the girl). It frustrates me so much that i feel like doing something terrible (Like omg, finding another date). I understand that it's not a big deal and I should not read too much into distancing issues, but it doesn't stop it from really bothering me. Which leaves me in a kind of a delima. I can either not mention anything and play it cool, while feeling a lot of frustration with this (Which will not make me a happy puppy) or I can talk to her about this issue, which may make me sound needy, pushy, clingy, <Insert any other cliche here> and push her into the distancing phase even more... Loose/Loose situation?
Hmm, it's a pickle even if it appears to be a very basic issue. Now, what does everyone think about this?
Thank you in advance for your help!!!
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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