have you ever thought that maybe you were subconsciously getting into those relationships because you want to forget about this one girl? some ppl seem to think that jumping into another relationship will be efficient enough to forget about the last one. that's only true if that person is right for you. getting into relationsips with ppl we aren't really attracted to will just make 'the other girl' seem even better by comparison, though this is irrational because it seems to me you don't really know the other girl all that well in the first place. if you feel this way, maybe it's time to take a little time off dating altogether? relationsips just happen, they cannot be forced.Originally posted by apiman
You know what though, I've kinda had girlfriends the past two years and none of them have affected me like this girl.
one effective way to stop thinking about relaitonships altogether is to focus on something else. easier said than done i know, but have you got any other interests besides running? an interesting thing occured to me is that maybe it's the running that makes you think of her, not you need her in order to run. it may be time to discover new interests and direction in life
and about the call....i would actually think she will be flattered to hear that she was your motivation to run, and i also think it's a good idea to stress that is the reason why you call her and not because you want to be her bf, since this is not really what she wants. i agree being honest here is for the best. well, good luck, and tell me how the call goes