My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We had been quite intimate with each other. Well... after our most recent fight, the sex has been more intensifying. (I'm not complaining)... but he now asks me what it is that I want from him and I can never tell him!!! I wish that I could just tell him, but I can't!! Is there a reason for this? I want to be able to tell him!!!
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22-09-05, 05:54 AM #1
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Is there something wrong???
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Wow that's vague. Can't help you with missing info. Why cant you tell him. Open your mouth and speak.
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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22-09-05, 06:05 AM #3
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There's definitely a way to take care of this problem. Stop being a pussy and just blurt out what you want!
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22-09-05, 06:05 AM #4
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I also don't understand why you are linking your sex life to your inability to communicate if you are happy with the sex. Can you clue us in?
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22-09-05, 06:06 AM #5
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why are you feeling so uncomfortable?
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22-09-05, 06:07 AM #6
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Sweetheart... is there something wrong?
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22-09-05, 06:23 AM #7
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no there is nothing wrong.... I'm satisfied with the sex, but when it comes to him wanting me to tell him what I want him to do... I'm clueless!!!
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22-09-05, 06:26 AM #8
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is he like asking you what you want as far as trying to make you happy?
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22-09-05, 06:26 AM #9
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Do you mean in the bedroom? If he is doing everything perfectly, and he is able to provide you with orgasms, tell him he is doing everything just right..
If he is not giving you that level of pleasure, but you don't know how he could go about it, I suggest you go check out some books about sexual pleasure.
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22-09-05, 06:33 AM #10
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Yes!!! Sorry I didn't word it correctly!!! Thanks!!!
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22-09-05, 06:34 AM #11
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o.k. i use to be kinda like you. but i can't really tell if your wanting to be more sexual with him or not? with me instead of telling my guy what i want. i take his hands and place them where i think it might feel good. . if you can't really say it in words, just try showing him.
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22-09-05, 09:37 PM #12
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Thanks!!!! I actually showed him last night what I wanted!!!
Last night.... I tried something new!!! I spent a lot of time cutting out hearts of all different shapes and sizes (that took a few hours). Once I finally finished that, I placed all those hearts all over the bedroom floor. Then every where in the bedroom, there were candles lit. The lights were low and glasses of wine sat on the table. While music played softly in the background! Not to mention what I was wearing or wasn't!!!
It surely turned him on!!!
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22-09-05, 10:49 PM #13
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Not just him...
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22-09-05, 11:24 PM #14
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Oh really huh???? LOL!!! Just wanted to try something new!!!
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23-09-05, 12:31 AM #15
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Try away, my friend, try away.
Your man should be lucky he has someone with some creativity!
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