Ok, I have been dating this guy for about 2 1/2 months and we aren't serious yet. He says he is not ready to be serious right now, that he really likes me and that he loves hanging out with me, but he isn't ready to be serious. My friend says it is just pride, because all his friends know he doesn't want to be serious with anyone, so if he gets serious with me then his friends might think he is a softy or something. What do you think?
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10-09-05, 12:39 AM #1
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10-09-05, 12:41 AM #2
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he doesn't want to get serious with you.
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10-09-05, 12:42 AM #3
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Pride? Don't make me laugh. Sounds like he's just a young man playing the field.
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10-09-05, 03:23 AM #4
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I agree with the others. He wants to date you plus date other people as well.
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yeah i dont think pride has much to do here. Look at me i stressed i dont want a Girl friend. and now look at me going on 5 months. Pride doesnt really play a big role when it comes to things like these i would say.
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yeah this guy definitely is just screwing you and is eventually going to dump you, if you're going to have a girlfriend, you should care more about them than you do your regular friends (That comment was going to his perspective). Even if he's not lying to you, he just wants to screw with a bunch of women.
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10-09-05, 04:00 AM #7
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He just wants to have sex with other girls. You would probably be better off not even wanting to get serious with someone like this.
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Completely agree.
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10-09-05, 06:44 AM #9
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...and i agree with this one. lol. Originally Posted by carpflounder
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10-09-05, 12:35 PM #10
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Oh sure ignore mine Originally Posted by misombra
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10-09-05, 05:42 PM #11
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Hi froggy21
You have to set some ground rules with this person. If you are after an exclusive relationship you have to make it very clear to him that either he becomes serious or you will have to find someone else. If you don't do this then don't expect anything more from your relationship with him than what you currently have.Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
