Potentially embarrassing problem.

[Illogikal]

First of all, I really hope that this is the right forum, I wasn't sure whether to put this in dating or sex, but I suppose it really is a dating problem. Okay, so I have a friend, not a gf just yet, but getting there, and we're almost that close, but she isn't available at the moment. So we're close, and have an intimate and very open friendship, you know hugging and sharing stuff and all that. We haven't gone out alone yet, but every time she touches me I get an instant boner. I don't know if she's noticed yet, and I don't think she'd mind that much, she might like the positiive attention, but anyway, it's embarrassing to me that if I touch her my penis feels it has to salute. Any suggestions for how I could get used to contact with girls and keep it down (I really haven't had much physical contact with em so far) so this will stop happening all the time?

[gHEXjt]

Just beat it once or twice before you go do something with girls. I think that will help solve your problem.

[Late_vamp]

jerk off before going out with her if you ABSOLUTELY cant do anything about it . else than that , just dont think sexual things about her when your with her and it should calm down alot more.

[Airborne]

Oh yea, a good long session of masturbation should do the trick.!

[Junket]

I can keep it down if I challenge myself to.

If worse comes to worse, when you get a brief moment when she's lookin' away tuck it under your belt.

I used do that in highschool when I'd get random boners.

[Illogikal]

Yeah, it's really hard to repress dirty thoughts around girls i like (DUUUUUUH I'm a hormonally imbalanced teenager). I beat off a lot just to keep my emotions under control, but I've just started coming into physical contact with girls so I guess I'm not use to the feel of someone else's skin.