Help with my Situation

[Lloyd95]

So here it is:
I'm in love with a married woman. I didn't realize this at first, so it's not like I was looking to be a home wrecker. Here's some background: We met online, and since I'm >16, I knew that I had found true love, as I have been in love before.

Our relationship was typical online flirting at first, but has since escalated into something so true, so honest, so real......

Then, the truth. She is married (with kids)

It first I was ,
then I became ; maybe at myself, maybe at her for not being truthful from the start.
But alas, now I am and

Have I mentioned that I have yet to meet her in person? And we've only known each other for a couple months. It's ok though, it doesn't matter, when it's right it's right. I know she feels the same way toward me.....but she being on the West Coast, and me on the East coast....

I have to be now.

Or do you think I should play and fly out there and see if she is truely in love with her husband?


Any help would be appreciated.

Lloyd

[Reverb]

Don't go out there dude. Let it go, she's married. If that's not enough reason for you she's already decieved you once. If she's truely that unhappy in her marriage she'll get a divorce, then you can go for it if you want. Don't mess around with a married woman no good can ever come of it. Think about being on the other end of that, and some random dude is in love with your wife. It happened to me, I caught them together, and It was worse because the guy was someone I thought of as a friend. You can't imagine that kind of pain.
Anyway after we separated she decided she didn't want him either, so nobody won in the end.

[TAVS]

Drop it and look elsewhere. Just my .02

[Lloyd95]

Don't go out there dude. Let it go, she's married. If that's not enough reason for you she's already decieved you once. If she's truely that unhappy in her marriage she'll get a divorce, then you can go for it if you want. Don't mess around with a married woman no good can ever come of it. Think about being on the other end of that, and some random dude is in love with your wife. It happened to me, I caught them together, and It was worse because the guy was someone I thought of as a friend. You can't imagine that kind of pain.
Anyway after we separated she decided she didn't want him either, so nobody won in the end.

In your situation I would have beat the living poop out of your so called "friend". Sorry to hear.

[lilwing89]

and since I'm >16, I knew that I had found true love, as I have been in love before.

so your really 16 eh???

[Lloyd95]

so your really 16 eh???

No, "greater than", meaning over 16.

[lilwing89]

ohhhhhh i see...

well chances are if she's on a DATING SITE she doesnt love her husband...
but if you really live in philly, would it really be worth it to fly to hell and back???

i say forget about her and find a philly girl!

[Lloyd95]

but if you really live in philly, would it really be worth it to fly to hell and back???

Never met her in person, but for this one, hell yeah!

[lilwing89]

really?? what makes it worth it?

[Lloyd95]

really?? what makes it worth it?

...If only I could tell you young samurai...

[lilwing89]

you can tell me...old grasshopper?? just kidding ofcourse.

[Lloyd95]

no really, if only I could tell you. I don't really know.

[lilwing89]

oh, haha thats how love works..

its that feeling again, guys, where your like *i think shes the one*...could be though?? shes fricken married...i dont think she would divorce with the snap of a finger...maybe you should talk to her about it, what does she say about her family/husband and all that?? does she love him at all?? it'd be a good idea..

but i still reccomend just finding a chick in your area...my mom met my stepdad off the internet...and we moved out here last year so he could be with her and he turned into a grubby bastard like 2 days within moving here..he seemed really nice though before we moved!!
btw from ohio to south dakota is NOT a good transition..
so philly to cali is prolly an even WORSE one

[Tone]

Am I the only one who sees what's going on here?

o.oa

[shh!]

Bastard!




I don't think I have ever laughed so hard at something online. You all can stop replying now; he is only kidding.