Favorite positions anyone?

[Innova]

Originally posted by squirrley


Ok, let me ask this, do you like it when the woman is control? Takes ALL of the initiative? handcuff ya, do what they want to ya? blindfold you? so you dont know what's coming?

YES!!!! My Ex did that all and then some to me once, and it caught me off guard...i loved it!

[squirrley]

It's good to have variety...spice things up now and then...
I'm looking for something to totally do just that, suprise to him to no end....what would that be? What would do that for you?

[sfalexi]

You wanna surprise him to no end, buy a studded dildo. Bring it out when it's just you two one night. When he looks at it, slyly say, "And guess what . . . it's not for me . . . " Who knows? It could add a whole nother dimension to yours (and his) sex life.

Alexi

[squirrley]

OH MY F***** GOD!!! ROFL. Can I please have something a little less drastic, DAMNNNNNN. What does this about YOU?

Didn't think guys liked the stuff. But hey, I HEARD, dont know from experience, that a finger is good? Is that true? Does that stimulate you men?

[Innova]

I really don't get enjoyment of that fact, and don't think i'll ever try it rofl. But guys have a spot in there that supposidly stimulates a guy.

[squirrley]

it's what I thought, can't imagine men liking things up there.

[Innova]

Originally posted by squirrley
it's what I thought, can't imagine men liking things up there.

Bubba does!

[sfalexi]

Yes. Apparently the male G-spot can be reached through his rectum. It's the good 'ol prostate gland. Supposed to be much pleasure if stimulated correctly. (I personally haven't tried it because I'm against things going 'in' the 'out' hole, but who knows? Maybe one day I'll be alone, and bored, and will see a bottle of baby oil crying out my name.)

[url]http://www.sfsi.org/answers/prostate.html[/url]
[url]http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/understanding_the_prostate.asp[/url]
[url]http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/23_love_secrets.html[/url]

And dozens more with a easy search with "male g-spot" on google.

Alexi

[squirrley]

WOW, have we done some research? Very interesting....
Glad you posted those though...it was enlightening...

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by sfalexi
You wanna surprise him to no end, buy a studded dildo. Bring it out when it's just you two one night. When he looks at it, slyly say, "And guess what . . . it's not for me . . . " Who knows? It could add a whole nother dimension to yours (and his) sex life.

Alexi

ROFL!!!

To answer squirrley, restrictions are fun. I've had a girl handcuff me, and I loved it. However, I must note, buy special handcuffs, real handcuffs used for this purpose can lead to severe injuries. Also fun is blindfolds, if both of you wear em, it can be real erotic. And no, I don't care no matter what, I'm EXIT ONLY.

[jane]

Ditto MVP... I am not into that...

[sfalexi]

Who knows MVP . . . you might end up loving it. . . just need to give it the chance . . . hehehe.

I don't know how the bed is set up, but if there are posts at each corner, how about two sets of handcuffs/ropes and tying or cuffing one hand to each post so he's in this sort of "crucifix" position. Or the legs too for this sort of controlled "spread" look?

Did you ever bring food into play? It's pretty cliche but buy a can of whipped cream and/or chocolate or strawberry syrup and you can be his "desert".

Did you ever greet him at the door naked when he returns home from work or something? I remember a "family feud" where the number one answer for "What you would be most surprised if your wife did" was "Greet me at the door naked".

Buy a book of Karma Sutra and work your way through all the different positions. Maybe you'll find something you both really like and lots of it will probably be new stuff.

That's all I can think of right now.

Alexi

[Innova]

Trust me everything you said short of the asshole has been done, we were VERY creative ROFL.

[sfalexi]

How about sex in public places? Could be a thrill and most of the time all you do is get kicked out of places if you're caught (not arrested). Like find a lonely place in the library or museum, a back room or closet in a large store or mall (think sears or something like that), etc.

[squirrley]

Ya know I all the above is good and has been done. But I always enjoy the food bit. Body paints, been there too. Handcuffs were fun, but no posts in a hotel. Public places would be interesting.

The new phase is Kantra Sex, sounds intimidating uh? But the gist of is you get your partner to almost climax but stop, take your partners feelings at the very moment and just breath in unison, guess its almost a spiritual thing. Sounds cool.

Who knows I think sex in general if with the right person can lead to almost anything, and then find things you never imagined yourself doing.....