There you go people, good sense!Originally Posted by nomas
You do need that attraction to get you started and the electric personality to keep you going. Not much else to say - this guy summed it all.
There you go people, good sense!Originally Posted by nomas
You do need that attraction to get you started and the electric personality to keep you going. Not much else to say - this guy summed it all.
I dont think anyone has said this before but what i know it as is "Ugly Duckling Disease"Originally Posted by bluesummer
It means that girls that are good looking have to develop no personality because people automatically flock to them, however girls who arent as good looking in school have to develop a good personality to get themselves friends as their looks dont do them any favours.
So you have the good looking girls with no personality and you have the not so good looking girls with good personlities.
Sometimes after school the ugly ones turn good looking and then they have the best of both worlds because they keep the good personality they have built up and they also have the good looks. I think these type of girls are rare though.
Originally Posted by Axel
Hey I think you've missunderstood my post. I've said men only going after women just for sex, that's why I've divided into two main types of girls.
One attracts mainly sextually, the other by non-sexually
type 1 for hookups and such
type 2 for relationships
Sorry if that sounds really mean or anything, but that's honestly what I think
I will pursue sex with both groups. The only difference between the two is the average amount of time it takes for me to decide on a sexual course.Hey I think you've missunderstood my post. I've said men only going after women just for sex, that's why I've divided into two main types of girls.
One attracts mainly sextually, the other by non-sexually
It is generally group two for relationships, though group one often contains beautiful women with amazing personalities who are "overlooked" because of their physical appearance.
~Sphinx
i was just in a relationship with the first type of girl and it was nice but they don't have much to come with they never seem to be as nice or anything, while my other g/f was the second type and it was one of the best things in the world we could have fun with anything and after awhile you get even more attracted to them.
you guys are skipping out A LOT on this one. you can't throw females or any persons in that matter into 2 categories. first of all there's the generic hot chicks and then there's the unconventionally hot ones who you still wanna bang. also, what constitutes as nice anyways, the personality types someone wants are going to vary. and then what about those chicks for example who guys all want to bang and they don't know why. like some people just have a certain amount of sex appeal oozing off of them even without being the easiest thing on the eyes right off the bat.
Type 2 but hot. I don't understand why looks have to be sacrificed for good personality? What ? good looking girls can not have a good personality? that makes no sense at all.
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i agree....well somewhat, i love type 2s i don't actually like hot looking girls only cute ones, but what i thanked you for was the fact that good looking girls can have good personalities too, people have just made this stereotype that they have no ability to be nice because they don't have to, good point
to each his own......i see women as hot or cute....or unfortunatley neither sometimes....i sometimes mix up attraction with your desire to want to be with someone rather than jsut appearance etc.....meanign that the personality helps the attractivness and the looks do just the lust
Meh. I've dated superhot guys before, and all it ever brought me was trouble.
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I think that if we love someone they become type 3 so they're not so rare... it just differs in the approaching way...
Anyways, I seem to only pick type 4s, I think they're fun... Nvm, I am crazy.
When you're just not in the mood to do it yourself.. type-1 hands down.. they're hot, they'll get the job done, and they're easy.. It doesn't have to be a one night stand.. (i'm against 1-night stands).. you can keep her hanging around for a week or two in a sort of pseudo-relationship type-thing.. but as the guy, you know that she's not girlfriend material..
if you happen to meet a type-2, if she has the looks of a type-1, but is nice/sweet/caring/smart/classy/eduacted/cultured/fashionable/funny/fun/interesting/emotionally stimulating/etc then it's dumb on your part to keep going after type-1 girls.. type-2 girls is what everyone is looking for; for as long as they look like type-1 girls.. (which makes them somewhat uncommon to find)
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