I used to be REALLY jealous of my ex's ex...(sonnds funny!) I was killing myself by reading all the cute stuff the wrote to each other via net(forums, guesbooks,etc.)..and only God knows why! I mean that was just so stupid. I knew they were over and he never really loved her, and I I knew it but, alas, that's just the way some girls are! Then, one day, I met her in ICQ and we chatted, and I found out that in reality she's really sweet and nice, and she's not sfter my ex. After that incident, I got of my ex's back. At last. But we were over anyway, but never mind, it's a different story.
So why don't you just tell her how things are and if it takes...get your girl get acquainted to your ex ( IF your ex doesn't like you anymore)...but don't be there, just leave them alone.
I have it all. Including kino.