i'm so dumb sometimes

[wishiwassocial]

is it possible that you love someone and get together for two months, have the time of your life, never have problems, talk about having children and stuff and then stop loving her (without really knowing why, and she doesn't loves you either that day obviously), break up, you two start ignoring eachothers and you don't love her anymore for 2 weeks...but then at once have that feeling back from the times you was still in love with her?
But you screwed it up and love someone who you already dropped

I haven't got a clue what to do now

[Tone]

That's life man, gotta learn to roll with the punches...

There's a reason someone came up with the saying "You never know what you really have until it's gone"

Try not to be too hard on yourself, many people have been in similair shoes.

[lilwing89]

To the title:
Aren't we all?

[clynn]

Suck up!

call her up! Do nice things!

Sometimes a big fat apology might work, some time away. Sometimes we need time to be on our own to reflect.

Buy her flowers!

Aarrrgghhhh.....

[wishiwassocial]

omfg, my ex-gf is bi, I knew that, but now she's hanging out with some lesibienne girl that is 5 years older than her, and that girl already told me that she loves her.

life SUCKS

[TAVS]

You didnt tell us lesbians were involved. Now I'm interested

[wishiwassocial]

yeah, actually I got together with her hoping i would get involved in FFM's not really

[NeoSeminole]

you must be either really young or really desperate, or both. You dated her for only 2 months and you talked about children? Damn. I say grow up some more before you jump into another relationship.

[Only-virgins]

There's a reason someone came up with the saying "You never know what you really have until it's gone"

Yes there is. They were drunk when they came up with it.

[misombra]

u expect too much from such a young woman. nobody wants to have your children right now. give it 10 years plus.

[wishiwassocial]

you must be either really young or really desperate, or both. You dated her for only 2 months and you talked about children? Damn. I say grow up some more before you jump into another relationship.

djeeez. We are both very adult and grown up, and we were just talking about stuff like that she would adopt one kid and make one "real" kid (ehh how do you say that?) and then I said that wouldn't be a good idea because the "real" kid would be poking the adopted kid and so on. Also the fact that we both wanted to have children in our very early 20's and not 30's like most people do... And it really seemed like we would stay together for y-e-a-r-s, but by how things happened (and how I behaved when I met her friends; i was very depressed) it just was better for both of us that we would split up.

And I'm 16.

[Tone]

djeeez. We are both very adult and grown up

And I'm 16.

Uh huh... mmk.

[NeoSeminole]

"We are both very adult and grown up"

sure you are buddy. That's why your locations says "in your girlfriend."

[misombra]

you are not grown my dear. you are still a child. you have no say as to what will last for years, you do not have a clue. if you have sex, please wear a condom.

[Alicias]

If i were you, I would stop whining, pull it all together and start working.
Start bulding up you guys' friendship or "ship" back, U have to act comfortable in the frist place tho.

Work through it up to a point that she's comfortable being with u. And then u can talk to her about this stuff. Just remember not to over emphazise ur effort on this, she would notice that if she really cares.

And during this period, u can get to know her more, and consider if she's worthy of your time.

If ur sure, just go for it!

bUT REMEMBER, DONT U EVER FALL INTO THE FRIEND ZONE.....
anyway, i think u know that better....