Afraid of love?

[Alicias]

Seriously, i think i have that kinda prob.

THere's this guy who likes me so much and keeps calling me everyday,
but i feel weird and uncomfortable with it.
I mean, having a person who cares about me is wt i always wish for, but now, my heart is going another route.
may be it's because i got hurt for so many times before?
or may be it's because he's not the right person??

[Junket]

If you're questioning him like this then he's not the right dude.

Let him down easy.

[clynn]

Maybe he isn't.

Or maybe it is too early to tell?

Does the idea of spending a night out with him, dinner or movie or a walk or lunch or something interest you?

It doesn't have to be all about the right / wrong one....dating is about getting to know people. .

[Steve2004]

well if you spend too much time dating and getting to know the wrong person...you're not going to have time to find the right person, and then you'll be miserable.

[jay12]

When someone makes themselves so easy for you then its always gonna be a turn off.

If you feel like you wanna go ou with the guy do it. You really dont need to be worrying about stuff like is he the one, or are you scared of love or nothing like that.

[Alicias]

I went out with him one time, and it's a bore. He never let me talk about myself. whenever i talk about myself, he was like looking away, changing the subject. I mean, if a guy can't listen to me, how can I have a deeper relationship with him?
And all in all, i didn't say i will be his girl. I just know him for 2 weeks and he started off acting like this. I dont know what makes him thinks that i like him. But the freakiest thing is that he , now ,starts to control my life. keeps telling me to be good( not to hook up) and not to talk to the other guys. how freaky is that???

[mini696]

This guys a freak... Get rid of him... Get your male friends to "have a chat" with him.

Your not afraid of love, you have a wierd man who cant take a hint. Just because someone like YOU doesnt mean you have to like them. God... I would be married to Gwen Stefani if that was true. LOL

[lilwing89]

what does he want when he calls you?

if he wants to hang out some time, do it. see if you like him when you hang out
could be different.

[Alicias]

Whenever he calls me, he asks me if i am doing fine, and wanna see me, and It always happens to be him being bored, so he calls me.

It's bizzare, seriously, talking to him is such a pain in the arse, coz he doesnt speaks fluent english, i needa guess wt he really means all the time. And he's so self consious to a point that, he feels shit about himself, alas, HE wants me...and make up this whole controlling freak show...

I think i shouldnt pick up his phone no more.....is that a gd idea?
I dont want to be a Biatch tho.

[Zeen]

Two words: stay away

[Tone]

Yeah, get rid of him, sounds like a jerkoff.

[clynn]

Yeah, definitely ditch him.

Might as well be nice about it. Even goofs have feelings.

[lilwing89]

Whenever he calls me, he asks me if i am doing fine, and wanna see me, and It always happens to be him being bored, so he calls me.

It's bizzare, seriously, talking to him is such a pain in the arse, coz he doesnt speaks fluent english, i needa guess wt he really means all the time. And he's so self consious to a point that, he feels shit about himself, alas, HE wants me...and make up this whole controlling freak show...

I think i shouldnt pick up his phone no more.....is that a gd idea?
I dont want to be a Biatch tho.

Just don't pick up the phone and avoid him for a while, he might not leave you alone though...

[Junket]

Just don't pick up the phone and avoid him for a while, he might not leave you alone though...

Yeah...

That's why she shouldn't just flat out ignore him.

It's better she let him know she's no longer interested.

Otherwise he'll definitely start snoopin' around to find out what's up.

You can't just expect to disappear from somebody's life by not picking up the phone.