A hard core carpet muncher ... no... but beng pussy friendly is a good idea. Of course your afraid to go down on her. Your last experience wasn't great. Eventually you will have to get over your fear and just "dive" right in.
My suggestion is this... oral is awesome... I know alot of women who would agree with me, however .. I agree with LB about the fact you should be sober if you do it again. The experience should be one you learn from.
SO... I wish you luck .. obviously the same pointers still apply.. shower first then dive in for the kill.
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