Erection Problem

[jasonsatmj]

My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about 4 months now. This past Saturday we had sex 6 times. When we first got together I was unable to get an erection the first and second times. I think it was nerves. I visited my doctor and he prescribed viagra. I used the drug 8-10 times, then stopped. I didn't need it anymore. Lastnight we were getting ready to have sex, I was fully erect. I was pleasuring her and felt myself loosing my erection. She pulled me on top of her and was discusted to see I had lost my erection. She feels that there is a reason for this and it's not just something that happens. Does it happen or not. By the way I am 27.I was not on Viagra on Saturday.

[shh!]

Wow - when you had sex 6 times in one day, were you on the Viagra?

Well, if you are able to achieve an erection, your problem is probably NOT physiological. I realize these things happen from time to time, but if you have a recurring problem with this, you might want to speak to a sex therapist. Your girlfriend will definitely internalize this problem as she will think that it is a reflection of your level of attraction for her.

[marcus23]

Maybe you've been tired or under stress.

[boobaa]

Too much sex. Erection muscles do fatigue sometimes. I mean, you cannot lift one bottle forever, one way or another, it fatigues sooner or later. Same with penis.

[COAD]

I had this kind of problem,
Heres what was up with me....
I was just getting right to it lol
The thing is, you gotta make it romantic you know... Play arround, dont just take your cloth of and ............

[whaywardj]

Boo -- You might want re-visit Human Sexuality 101.

Jason -- Try to not let your mind get in the way of your head. Just stay in the moment, do whatever it takes to get you up, and call it foreplay. All other things being equal, sooner or later in the ups and downs, up will prevail. I'd avoid drugs unless I had three separate opinions confirming a true erectile dysfunction. Even then, I'd try alternate therapies first. (Have you noted some of the side-effects of these drugs?!)

[Nurseman]

Any sex therapist, when told about this problem will tell you the same thing:"Stop having sex so often!"

Look, we humans aren't DESIGNED to have sex every 5 freakin' minutes. Take it a little easier there, Cowboy.

[Nurseman]

She pulled me on top of her and was discusted to see I had lost my erection.

....and let me add something to this. No woman is "discusted" when you lose an erection. Actually, most are kinda relieved. Frequently they think its THEIR fault.

Women love to analize stuff, so she will be on the phone with all her girlfriends to figure out weither you are tired, or deformed, or gay, or whatever.

...just trying to make you feel better.

[shh!]

Umm, nursie, that would depend on how often it happens. If it is a regular occurance and the owner of the penis has not sought help to correct the problem, she would, indeed, be disgusted.