hey just joined

[Blink]

hey every one i thought id just say hi cos i just joined today.

i have a boyfriend and he is 15 and im 16, and i really do not no how to tell im in love?!?!?! help! i think i am but not sure, do u no how to tell?

[Stillinlove]

>.> hope u find the answer to that here. im not saying itsimpossible, but most 15 year old dudes dont fall inlove. they sure will tell u they are though >.>

[Blink]

hmmm yeah i no what u mean, but hes like soo perfect for me and i no he really likes me and he does say he loves me, but i dont no what love feels like as i have never been with anyone esle before, weve been goin out 6months now and i really really do like him. lvoe is confusing lol

[tisay]

just be yourself!
welcome to the forum!

[shh!]

Welcome to the forum, blinky!

When you are in love, you will be certain of it. Be careful about the boy - the above posters are right; 15 year old boys are in love with girls for very short periods of time (relationship ADD). I think they are genuinely in love, but only for the length of time it takes to convince you to have sex with them. Then, they fall out of love just as quickly, so be careful about giving in to sex, and protect yourself.

[Blink]

cool thnanks guys!! its 6 months today aswell with my boyfriend woo lol. il just have to wait and see i supose, i mean we either are or not but il just have a good time for now.

[LoveForever]

Love is complicated I'll agree with that! When you do fall in love you'll be able to feel it. Just trust your heart. Saying you love someone and being IN love with someone are different though, don't get too confused. Welcome to the forum, I'm kinda new too! *huggles* ~Tink

[Gypsy]

Hi and welcome to the forums

[Blink]

heey every one thanks for all the advice! yeah il just have to wait and see, love is just to confusing lol xxxxx

[artyemi]

Love is very confusing indeed.

You should see how many threads on this forum ask:

what is love?

am i in love?

[whaywardj]

If you and yours are not in the least afraid of getting lost in each other or ashamed of being found by each other, then I'd say you're probably truly in love with each other and should move forward together.

[Blink]

yeah i do really love him but i don't know how to tell if it's real of not... as i said confusing. But i don't want to lose him , when i think of life without hmi i think what's the point, that's why i came on here and asked advice. hmmmm xxxxxxxx

[artyemi]

Love takes time to tell.

Some people will say that you're infatuated with him right now.

And I realized that oftentimes, when you think about losing someone, you think that you love them most.

But what about thinking about the rest of your life with him? How does that make you feel?

But don't do that, you're still young. Just take things as they come and don't worry too much about what it is or what it could be.

[Blink]

yeah il think about the next 2 weeks not the next 2 years. thanks for all your advice though guys this site wicked i didnt think i'd get this much respsonse thanks everyone xxxxxxxxxxx

[Junket]

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