Confused and hurt

[itina]

he didn't have feelings

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you will definitely meet a good man

[Hooo!]

If he doesn’t want a relationship
And you are not ok with being friends (maybe because it eats on you everyone you see him)
You can
1) deal with the incoming misery
Or 2) let him go

Both hurt
2) will hurt more at first and less later

[Brokenheart9989]

[MENTION=85121]Hooo![/MENTION] Yeah, i think i would opt for option 2. The thing is, i also dont feel head over heels for this guy. I think it was just something i had started to feel and caught early enough to not feel decestated. The week away from him has helped a lot. I think the reason why i dont want friendship is because he seems very selfish. That doesnt really make for a great quality in a friend... not really worth the effort. Anyways thanks [MENTION=85121]Hooo![/MENTION] For everything!!!

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[MENTION=87639]itina[/MENTION] thank-you

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[MENTION=87639]itina[/MENTION] thank-you

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[MENTION=44257]purplerain2010[/MENTION] thanks for all your help!

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[MENTION=42177]pcmaster[/MENTION] & [MENTION=87417]smackie09[/MENTION] & [MENTION=87425]Minikimini[/MENTION] & [MENTION=86390]MsLondonB[/MENTION] thank-you for all your help and advice! Greatly appreciated!!