I have read through the posts and it seems I am the only woman to give my opinion.It broke my heart to read what you think about yourself. I am a true believer in what we believe ourselves to be becomes our truth. You say you are very unattractive. Perhaps even deformed. I saw a story about a young man who was born without arms or legs. He is married and has children.
If you truly believe that you are a loser, then, yes, that is what you will be. Are you kind? Are you respectful? Not all women are shallow. Your salary isn't important. Whether you work out at the gym or not isn't important. You have to BELIEVE you are worthy of love and that you have love to give. I don't believe any of us was put on this earth to be alone and lonely. Nothing will change for you until you change your mindset. You must learn to love yourself first. Would a therapist help? Did you receive no encouragement as a child?
Whether you believe it or not, there IS someone out there who will love you for exactly who you are, but you must learn to love yourself and accept yourself and know you are as worthy of love as anyone else.