I ended dating a Russian girl

[Rockisback]

After a divorced, 1 cash extractor GF and some crazy jealous woman, i decided to take some vacations in Russia and ended up with a Russian GF! So she is exactly the girl i wanted to date, when i saw her i though ¨This girl is going to be mine¨ in a good way of course, so second date i asked her for us to have something serios, yes i liked that way! Now after some time i will go back to meet her for her birthday, ok, i have some business to run, so busy, busy but never for her! I am not into SM even when i work on IT, I hate it but she is huge on Instagram (For me that i have 80 followers),the situations is that she follows random guys every day from different countries, which honestly i don´t kinda like! i knew her like that but be honest who likes that his GF is following people and getting DM's from all around the globe ! I followed some Russian girls before dated her and when she mentioned something i unfollowed them (Stupid of me, but i tried to make thinks right and no just play stupid games) So to be honest i am quite confused with this situation, not to mention that she is not the most romantic girl, kinda cold!
I need some advice to be honest about the SM and i hate to not to be in the same circumstances

thanks in advance for the reading

[pcmaster]

Whats SM? And how young you are guys?

[Noah]

You did not think that you are fooling? You put yourself in a dependent position from her. Russian girls can not take seriously men whom they can manage. And it controls you. Where did you meet? On which website?