I started dating my boyfriend in october of last year. At first he would tell me he was a stable guy with a house and would take care of me and all that... blah, blah, bla
The problem is he never told me he had a serious work accident and almost died once or that he smoked weed. He works in construction but now he just works on his own and repair things for other people.
He is quite poor which was ok at first but now he can only afford to pay his house and bills. He never buys groceries and everytime i see him, well i have to help him buy the supper and now it is to the point which
i buy his toilet paper.
I do not have a lot of money either cause i am currently on a welfare program to pay for my schooling. He never takes me out on dates cause he is to poor. I just started my driving lessons and he is teaching me how to drive and i am thankful for the help. i do pay him gaz for that but i don't practice much and he can be a little pushy on me with my driving. I got mad cause he smoked weed before helping me with my driving. I told him not to do that again but he lied to me and still smoked before my driving.
I know he likes me and cares for me and i do too but I don't think his financial situation will improve. He wants me to move in with him but i am afraid that it will cost me all of my money. He does not have cable or internet so it would cost me more if i do live with him cause i would have to pay for it myself. I currently live with my mother and other family members which is difficult for me not to have my own place anymore. I stay cause i pay lower rent and it helps out with school since i plan to get a good job afterwards. I love my boyfriend and i want to move in with him but i am scared of finding myself struggling to survive with him. I had a horrible winter cause there is no heat in his house and got sick a few times from the coldness. I don't know what to do and i do not want to sacrifice my comfy life to a rough one at his place and living dollar to dollar per month for him. I don't want to leave him either so what do you think i should do?