Originally Posted by
Heatwave
I understand that and still love him either way. My main concern was should I tell him exactly how I feel or not? He is all about giving me everything I want and I don't want him to feel like we have to get married for me to be happy with him. Also I did tell him that I wasn't in an rush. We have only been together 18 months and been living together for an year. I just don't want him to feel pressured.
What exactly is opposing this idea?
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
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