its not the girl
its you.
if your programm is not compiling with several compilers its usually the code
if you run your programm but it doesnt do what you want
you also change the code.
if you keep changing the code but you still dont get the results then you must stop
and think the whole thing over. Perhaps you are changing the wrong code.
Sometimes however the code is correct, but the outcome is not what you wanted
(buy milk and if they have eggs bring 10... so you bring 10 milk)
then you must look at the intention of the code first.
the intention comes first
the code is essential but can vary
the circumstances or compilers just tweak everything up and down a bit - but not much.
i still sense a certain stiffness with your approach on women.
For the next women you meet: just once: be interested in her. What she thinks and what she feels, what she believes and why she does thinks
what she wanna grow to be and why she likes the thinks she likes
and at the same time just pretend that touching and sex is natural. That it is nice to touch each other (for her too) and that you both like to linger for a while
and then manage to just enjoy yourself at it and have some fun.
forget everything else you believe about women. Forget what you think you owe them or what not. Just for one bit dont pay attention to your social programmings. just concentrate on the three things i told you above.
just try it and tell us how it went.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.