First of all you are crazy. 5 years is too long to move on. If you google guides - how to get over ex, then you will see you did everything wrong. If you fell in depression 2 weeks later then you should have seen doctor right away and get on meds to stabilize your mood. Now it seems like some mental ilness have developed that dont let you move on.
You might be a good person, good at heart. But you did some mistakes. Like we all did. Just most important thing is to dont repeat those mistakes.
If you would sort yourself out, you wont need ex anymore. Thats the truth. You need her only now while you are stuck in the past. It can take a great while but you will benefit from learning to live in present moment.
If you want to start doing something about your life then start with therapist. Besides that work towards your goals and normal things you want in life. Sucsess with girls will come once you work towards becoming a better man.
It wont be fast or easy but years from now you could get back to normal life and thinking. Actually even few months could do a lot together with meds, therapy and efford from yourself, doing the right thing. But to really become happy and confident and stable, you will need longer time.
Last edited by pcmaster; 10-01-17 at 07:35 AM.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will