Hello, I'm not a person who usually share problems with others, but now I'm confused and think that I really need an advice and some kind of kick in the butt to get gather up courage and do something at last.
So this story begins like many others do - There is a girl We've known each other about 1,5 year and since then we're friends - not the closest ones, but I like her, she likes me, and we quite often meet in a group of our mutual friends. We're both at the same university, however she's 2 years older.
So some time ago I felt that maybe she's the one, and I'd like to try if this can work out. But... I suck in picking up girls .
I have a few female friends that I get along really well and feel very comfortable with, but I just don't see potential girlfriends in them. I've never had serious relationship. There was one girl I had fallen in love with, but she told me that we can be friends only. There was also one that craved me, but I didn't want to be with her.
So now, due to little experience and being shy in this kind of situations I don't know what to do... Lately I was with her in the cinema and in pub to have a beer after the movie. Few days later I took her out again. These were first two times we went somewhere alone. (Well, I had spent with her some time alone before, but only in situations when rest of our friends left earlier ) Anyways, we had a good time, but I'm such a pussy and haven't done anything to show her how I feel. I'm afraid, that if I don't do anything necessarily on our next meeting, I will put myself into friendzone, cause she'll think that I just want to be a close friend.
So what should I do, to be totally clear in my intentions, but not to be too insistent? Next time I'll see her will be probably soon but in a group of our mutual friends. How to act on this kind of meeting? And also, where do you think I should ask her out next time and how to act then?