Think I could be in trouble...

[Jcoops]

Hi all

I'll keep this brief....

I'm male early 30s, have a gf. I play in band with a female mber who's dating another member of the band.

When I've been with female member of the band I think about her a lot, not so much when I haven't seen her. I think I might be developing feeling for her even though I don't want to! We're both in relationships and it'll make things really complicated!

We do seen to have a connection and get on really well and she kinda gets in my head!

Anyone have any advice?

Thanks

J

[topazlight]

Maybe you are bored with your current GF, and that relationship has run its course for you. Why else have thoughts about a friend who is dating another of your friends. Maybe think about if you want to stay in your current relationship. I think the band member is off limits even if she broke up with the other friend band member so put her out of your mind.