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    Thoughts Please

    Ok, so this guy I've been speaking to for a few weeks told me not so long ago he's in an on off relationship with someone. Although that same day he still showed signs of being interested in me.

    I text him a few days later and got a reply although he made no effort to make further conversation, no questions or anything, so I left it.

    A week later he texts asking me about something he'd seen me post online, I replied and again I then got a one word message back.

    Why does he seem to text every so often but not put in any real effort to have a full conversation? My thoughts are that he's keeping me as an option in case this other thing doesn't work out.

    What should I do?

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    Sorry Jane, I can't see that he's keeping you as an option. If you were an option, he'd be putting in enough work to make you think that you were in with a chance. But this lack of conversation.....he's just not interested in any type of romantic relationship with you.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    I think that, you should get over this text messages and meet him personally, not like a date, to know what is going on in his life, when he said that "he is interested in you" , he actually mean it or just attracted to you, by meeting him personally you can see his face expression and can chek weather he is faking, taking you as a option or in real life also he is not that romantic guy,

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    Stay away from people who have on and off relationships. Most who do are unstable, unreliable, and have an uncommitted type of personality.....which he has already proven to you.

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