Hi I'm new to this website and have love problems

[brokenhearted25]

Hi I'm new to this website, and have emotional problems

[AdminOnline]

Hello brokenhearted25, welcome aboard. Enjoy your visits.

[brokenhearted25]

thank you admin, lol I don't know where to start really so I just thought I'd give a quick introductry

[topazlight]

What emotional problems are you dealing with? Because of losing a love?

[brokenhearted25]

What emotional problems are you dealing with? Because of losing a love?

Its a bit complicated but lets say what do you do when you have a painful past that no one but yourself can completely understand and you cannot really describe it in words but its too overwhelming to keep it bottled up for too long as well. ?

[basilandthyme]

Its a bit complicated but lets say what do you do when you have a painful past that no one but yourself can completely understand and you cannot really describe it in words but its too overwhelming to keep it bottled up for too long as well. ?

You go to a therapist.

In the interim I'm sure we'd all be happy to help, but you'd need to tell us what's going on.

[brokenhearted25]

Hey , basilandthyme
thanks yeah I thought about going to therapy classes at first but i felt uncomfortable to speak openly to such a person incase they were the type who even though paid to listen don't really care.

[basilandthyme]

I would imagine that most people who choose counselling for a career do so because they are caring souls who wish to help. Try and look at new things with an open mind rather than cynicism

[brokenhearted25]

I don't usually like to open up about these problems but everyday its becoming more of a struggle to keep it hidden and really pretend that nothing is wrong and face my loved ones around me such as family, friends e.t.c and acquaintances as if I'm one happy , carefree British Burmese girl of almost 24 years of age this month when it's far from that.

[topazlight]

[MENTION=81499]brokenhearted25[/MENTION]- I think you fight through the pain and not being comfortable of sharing and try your best to share if you are not understood, then others will ask q's to help you give further information.

Could be healing to open up about your pain and past, especially to strangers and no one should be holding you to any judgment and if they do the shame is on them, not you.

[brokenhearted25]

[MENTION=81499]brokenhearted25[/MENTION]- I think you fight through the pain and not being comfortable of sharing and try your best to share if you are not understood, then others will ask q's to help you give further information.

Could be healing to open up about your pain and past, especially to strangers and no one should be holding you to any judgment and if they do the shame is on them, not you.

haha thanks for your encouragement, its just hard explaining to someone in my reality that gets it and truly helps me, as support with what I go through , its as if even the closest ones near to me such as the few friends I have , best friend, only sibling or parents have no idea with what I go through emotionally, its as if it doesn't seem to matter, when it was to do with my career that was the up most important especially to my traditional parents (especially mum whom I am closer with), I stayed focus even though unhappy. Maybe its cos I can be an introvert at times, I don't know lol there is a lot to say but its as if I don't know if I open up if I am saying it to the right person who is patient enough and listens all the way through, bewildered what they hear from me.

[Broken_Me]

exactly the same thing happening with me, i know that feel, to put a fake smile 24 hours and explaining our heart..
if you want you can share with me and i would love to share my story with you

[brokenhearted25]

Hi, thanks its like this, don't know where to start I should of mentioned this in love forum really not in the introduction forum, sorry admin about this .

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My story is a bit long winded but here goes to nothing, loading and confessing my past anonymously to complete strangers who I can confide in online. Just kidding. Seriously though, I feel its better to say that this is one of the reasons for my inner sadness once and for all. I will try my best to summarise my love past and where I am at now (especially emotionally).Now before anyone judges me, and pass any sort of criticism upon me I would just like to say that I am saying this with confidence and that I am truly one that respects and worship true love, commitment, sheer trust and long term destined soul mate unions and such as that what I am about to say I hope won't make you think any less of me.

In my life I have had a total of up to 5 ex boyfriends. Now before you pass judgement, that was never my sole intention at first to even go beyond having a 2nd ex let alone a third. . I would describe myself as a decent, faith ridden, moral and traditional British Burmese lady and had always believed and put in faith that my first love would be my last love and the one I ended up with , but as some who may have gone through similar experiences through what I did, as soon as I explain , will know that. That is not always true. Or the case.

[basilandthyme]

Having had five boyfriends is NOT a bad thing. Most of us date quite a number of people before we find the person who we will spend the rest of our lives with. A handful of people find 'the one' early on, but it's rare.

The odds of our first partner being our only partner is extremely low. Thing is, our relationship experiences help us figure out what we want in a relationship....as do our life experiences. During all this dating, you're finding out about yourself and the things which are important to you. Life experience is a GOOD thing.

I suspect that you're feeling so bad because your ideal doesn't match up to the realities of dating. Try and focus on what's real and put less emphasis on what is a romantic notion

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