Hi all
I am new to this forum and need some advice please. Will try not to go into too much detail.
2 months ago I met a man through a work function(we don't work together), he was immediately taken with me and texted and called constantly for the first few weeks however since then it has decreased which I am not worried about as its impossible to keep that up forever. We have been for a number of dates and I always enjoy the time spent with him and he says the same about me. We are both in our 30's, divorced with kids, he made it clear he wanted to have a girlfriend and wanted to get married again and he is always the one who brings up our future and having kids together etc and has asked about where I want to be in 5, 10 years. We haven't had the chat about being exclusive although he tells me he isn't seeing anyone else. Recently he has been more and more distant, I didn't hear from him at all for 5 days then suddenly he wanted to meet up. He told me he got scared but sorted out whatever issues he had. He tells me he cant stop thinking about me but then he always seems too busy to give me his time. Yesterday we met for lunch and it was rushed, awkward and he usually walks me back to the car but he said goodbye at the table and left. I get the feeling he wasn't interested in what I had to say and there was no hand holding or arm touching which we have always had in the past. Perhaps he had work issues that were on his mind? He did send a text after to say thank you but nothing since then. I know I am overthinking the whole situation and I'm driving myself crazy by doing so! I am at that point where I want to know if this has potential to go somewhere or if I should cut my losses and move on. I don't know if he is sending mixed signals or if I am being too sensitive.