Just had to end my first relationship and I have no clue what's going on. Went on for about 1.5 months.
I inform her that I'd like to talk at a local cafe and she agrees to meet. I tell her I'd like to break up and she asks me why.
She SPECIFICALLY asked me to be honest. Which I was going to be anyway, but just making that clear.
I told her that she was becoming boring and throughout the relationship there were a lot of things I grew to dislike about her. Her lack of attention in maintaining her hair, her constant talking about insipid things that had NOTHING to do with either of us, and how she would constantly order my food for me and get it wrong.
Those were the main reasons, but there were more. You get the idea.
Anyway, she LOSES HER DAMN MIND! Starts spouting off this nonsense and does it pubically. Very aggressively talking down to me and tells me that I'm wrong. She's making a spectacle and everybody is watching.
I immediately ran outside and left the cafe. I'd never seen anything like that in my ENTIRE LIFE. I grabbed a cab and blocked her from texting and calling me right there.
I'm terrified of what she'll do next. Her face was magma red and it was very disturbing. This is nothing like the break ups I've seen online or on TV, this was far from that.
When should the police get involved? Should I warn her first or just contact them now?