Hello, my current S.O and I are currently together, and we are actually married! It's a really great, healthy marriage.
However...When we were younger, when we had a couple of kiddie relationships, she actually *sexted* people in a way. Through Email, and such when all of that was relevant for instant message, and sending pictures, etc. Anyways! When I found out..I was devastated. Heartbroken, in shock. Even for a 13 year old at the time. (We were both 13) I just couldn't really handle it. I still remember that it was just such a difficult time for me. (Also, bare in mind at the time we were kind of on a break.) Anyways, when I found out, you better believe I confronted her. With all of the anger and rage. I talked to her, told her that I found all of this. Anyways, she admitted that she did it, and she was really depressed about it. I could definitely tell that she was sorry...I actually saw her in person, and she started tearing up. I think the most painful part was she told this guy she loved him. She said at the time that it was the stupidest mistake she ever made...Anyways. Yeah, we ended up breaking up! We split up for a good 5 years..I believe around the time I turned 20, we got back together. She seems alot different now, like she's really changed in terms of morals, what she does. She's just a different girl, for the better. To make a long story short, it went great, we ended up married. I love her with all of my heart, and plan on having a family. But...Looking into it...I guess sexting is considered cheating...That got into my head..It hurts knowing that I'm in a relationship that I was cheated on with. Just the label bothers me....We were only kids at the time..But, still....
What are your thoughts?