First off I'm new and I haven't been on a forum in ten years. I don't want to be a gossipy type, because my circle is kind of small, but I have a lingering issue that I could use some help/advice.
My boyfriend is a really sweet guy. He doesn't like fighting with people and he is prone to being a doormat. Ever since I got with him one of his friends has insisted on being around us 24/7. We have been living together for awhile now too. The three of us that is. For awhile it looked like things were getting better. He found a girlfriend and started clinging to her. He had even started moving out.
Then she dumped him and now we're back to square one. He always wants to know where we are and knocks on our door at inappropriate times. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I know its not his fault, but I wish he would set boundaries with the guy.
What kind of advice can you guys give?