Need Advice

[ezio_auditore]

i am in college
pursuing engineering
its my 3rd year...its almost complete
i will be going to 4th year i.e my final year

there's this girl..
i have a crush on
who is my friend..
we were like normal casual friends...
but recently i have been texting with her and we study together all night on phone because our final exams are going on.
i dont know....
but i like her
i pass compliments to her evry now and then when we are talking or texting...
i make her laugh a lot
we started talking about many things

but... i just cant say it to her directly that i love her...
she was in serious relationship with a guy for 3 years
she recently broke up with him
many guys have crush on her
she also knows about this
and even discusses this with me
even i tell her some people that have crush on her
but i feel in her eyes i am just a friend..
now...
i dont know
i feel sad,insecure,jealous and sometimes angry when she is with someone else
or looks at one of my friend like..it appears she likes him]
but i dont know cause she is friendly with everyone
i just cant differentiate...
i am confused..
i keep giving her hints that i like her by complementing her..
but apart from that i always behave like a normal friend or buddy
i think that she not in my league
i think she likes me as person
but because i am not great looking i might not have a chance..

and..
one more thing

lastly i think that i fall for any girl who is good looking and talks sweetly to me
i have never had a girlfriend...
only crushessss....
i wish i had someone with whom i could share everything
a beautiful girl in my life

[Vw_beetle]

You know what you described is just so beautiful. Tell her. Even if she rejects you. You will have maned up. And you never know she might like you but doesn't have any hope. You'll never regret it even if you lose her. At least you will have tried for someone who you really care.

I don't want to give you high hopes but if she's still hanging out with you I think she's interested. It's not just about studying getting high marks. About liking your friend- maybe she's trying to get you jealous so you speak up. Go now. Get her ice cream and tell her. Wanna share my ice cream forever? Ask firmly. She'll get it. If she laughs off. Without laughing or smiling ask again n tell her I'm serious. Report back don't be sad if it doesn't work. Just be happy you are not someone who is just wishing. You have great qualities. You re about to be an engineer. Your nice. Good luck.
That's what guys want beauty and girls want someone to lean on. Forever.

[ezio_auditore]

i think there is hope for me..
you encouraged me alot..
and thanks for that.
but i feel shy asking her out as i have neverr asked anyone out.

[smackie9]

Are you prepared to be rejected?? because 98% of guys who are friends with a girl that they have a crush on will be rejected. Never ever tell her you are in love with her. This will make her feel awkward because more than likely she doesn't feel that strongly about you. All you need to do is ask her out on a date, that is enough to let her know you have a romantic interest in her. Make sure you say ''date'' to her so she doesn't confuse it with hanging out.