First of all, our relationship is online and voice only.
(I'll use a list to explain my situation, HIGHLIGHTED stuff is "imp)
She is 18, I am 20
Met her online
My intention was to only be friends and talk
Her mentality is that of a teenager still, so she attached fairly quickly
She engaged in dirty talk and later realized that she enjoys talking to people like that
She told me her problems and I listened, we've been talking for a while now and almost everyday, which I have eased slowly
Insecure about herself and the fact that I tell her that nothing is wrong with her and I like her for her personality, it brings me closer..
I've never mentioned that I want a relationship with her and that only I like her, as in talking to her, which I have stated many times
She understands that we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend, but she told me that she is still friends with her "ex" as if I should know that
She makes it clear that I mean something to her, even mentioned it in the first days we began talking
Apparently, I am the first person to talk to her with a voice call that she met online...
I've tried a few times on giving her the notion that we are just friends but she doesn't like it when I say that...
I've had breakups and they've been mutual and a breakup with someone like her is hard for me and almost feels like doing so would make her depressed or something.
She UNDERSTANDS that we aren't together but sometimes talks as if we should meet and know each other closer.
I just want to be friends with her and not have something over my back that reminds me that she sees is it more than friends but less than boyfriend/girlfriend...
When we talk over the phone, it feels that she "needs" my voice to feel at ease or something. I don't want that type of thing.
Would it work if I simply stopped talking to her so much, closed myself and separated from her so she could realize that I am not the guy she should like?