What should i do

[trevorcork]

I became friends with this girl before xmas,we got on really well and started sleeping with eachother etc,but she had said too me she didnt want a relationship just friends as she had been hurt before,i respected that no problem,but as we became better friends she kept saying to me she doesnt no where she stands with me? but i was respecting her wishes just been friends, then at xmas she was having alot of probs at home so she just stopped talking too me until about 3 weeks ago she rangme out of the blue for a chat said she missed our chats etc,but that she now has a boyfriend etc,i found it strange she didnt want a relationship but now was in one, then today she rang me sayin shes just up in a heap with her life and wanted to talk too me cos i cheer her up, now i dont no if she really has a boyfriend or is just saying this too me,but i really would love to get with this girl and just be there for her i really am mad bout her evewn tho we hadnt talked i use think of her alot,im just wondering how a

[Wakeup]

Tell her to ring you up when she doesn't have a boyfriend. You would like to be with her as her boyfriend and if she's not willing to do that then its best to just get on with your lives without one another.

Why let her make you her emotional tampon? Why end up in a sexual relationship with someone who has a boyfriend? Why let her make you her male GIRLfriend? Why let her demote you from lover/friend to just friend?