I get this about my dick all the time, and as the repeated victim of such degrading, offensive claims about my dick I beg of you, please don't say this to her. Words cannot express the pain inside my heart every time I whip it out and hear "oh god please don't hurt me" or "eeek!! slow down!!! less pressure!!! pull it out I can't take anymore!!! (gasps, goes into convulsions, and faints)".
One especially heartless woman compared my dick to the Greek Serpent God "Draco" my self-esteem has been destroyed by these ruthless slanders against the temple that is my body. Please don't put this poor girl through the same emotional trauma to which I've been subjected.
They see indoctrination and they call it "morality", "professionalism", or "maturity" depending on the context.