You can usually gauge someone's interest by how he acts. But if you're unsure about someone's intentions, ask and get feedback. It's a good idea to see things straight early in a relationship. Say something casual, like "I had a great time. We should do it again sometime, don't you think?" Things are probably not going well if you have...

Along the way, there will be signs about whether the two of you are interested, and whether you are suited for one another. These are some good signs: He asks what you would like and then does it. The amount of time you talk together increases. The things you share become more intimate. He says "sweet" things (such as, you are...

So you've been out with this person a few times, but you're still not sure if she is really interested in you or if this is "it." You will likely ask yourself, "Is this going anywhere?" or "Am I wasting my time?" Chances are, if you have to ask, be cautious. It means that things are not flowing so smoothly. If you are...

Who Pays? When you start going on several dates, the issues about who pays can shift from the routine you have set up on your first dates. As you go out more often and spend more money, you might want to share more equally in some of the expenses. And you might want to be more sensitive to who is earning more money. Talk about this without fear,...

Whether you're going to be picked up at home, or plan to go back to your place for a nightcap, review your place with an eye for having company. Do it yourself, or if you have a few days to prepare, get a cleaning service to do a really thorough going-over (save your nickels, though -- these services cost about $50 for three hours). If you're...

In the old days, it was only proper for a gentleman to pick a lady up at her place before a date. Suggesting any other rendezvous would be insulting. She would never dream of getting herself anywhere on her own. In the New Millennium: You can meet anywhere for your date, if it seems comfortable and appropriate. Of course, the traditional...

Small tokens are a great way to show your interest and make the other person feel good. Avoid large items and expensive things in the beginning. Choose something that the other person likes. Jackie gave Jeff a package of golf balls that he hand mentioned were his favorite, impressing him with not only the gift, but how she had paid attention to...

Think of subsequent dates building on the experience of the second date. They should also fulfill certain purposes. As a review: You will want to get a truer and fuller sense of togetherness and see how you work together as a team. You will want to learn even more about how you both deal with different situations. You will want to test...